fabulous” variety; highly desirable, accomplished, world-by-the-tail men and women who have it all – and
they each have a lot happening in their lives. And yet with all their gorgeousness and all the amazing career
success, material goodies, and all the fascinating activities they have in their lives, the one thing they don’t
have is a partner with whom to share it all; so they come to me with hope, sincerity, and credit card in hand,
looking for that missing piece. And they ask me to and expect me to…FIX IT. Fabulous Jack and Fabulous Jill
both fall into my lap, seeking help connecting with that counterpart who is their equal in incredibleness and
gorgeousness. And so I jump in to do my job. Sparing no effort or expense, I recruit, interview, photograph,
contemplate and line up the candidates, presenting Jack and Jill to each other for study, reflection, and selection.
The state of the industry technology I’ve developed enables me to do this for my oh-so-busy clients in such an
easy, simple, and effective fashion that no matter where they are on the planet, he and she can pop online anytime
and make decisions about who makes the cut…and who doesn’t. Easier than pie. I know this, because I’ve made
lots of matches and I’ve made plenty of pies.
Except now we have the breakdown. Jack and Jill have both
said Yes to meeting each other. They’re equally fabulous, and of course they both know it, and they’re both
accustomed to getting what they want when and how they want it. And if getting in touch, making contact, and
arranging a first date is not easy and simple and fun (or if it’s not on their terms…) what’s happening
repeatedly is, Jack or Jill or both are getting frustrated and will tend to want to move on to some other
tantalizing activity or person, thereby missing the opportunity to connect with this other delicious person
entirely.
And so it goes, week by week, month by month, year-end after year-end. And on January 1 of this
upcoming new year, so many of these truly extraordinary single people will still be single, not in love, and they’ll
all be wondering what went wrong and some of them will be asking me why I’ve failed them...
Today's highly
accomplished single people are filling their lives with so much delicious activity that they often miss the
opportunity to connect with the very people who might "be" their future. It's a forest and the trees situation.
What's amazing to me is how much the BUSY FACTOR has become a real issue with dati